My grandparents house (on Mom's side) had a smallish front yard that
had the typical sidewalk down the middle that met up with the sidewalk
down by the street. The yard sloped away from the house and was a bit
higher than the driveway on the south side. To hold the soil back from
the pavement, there were cinder blocks. And inside of those cinder
blocks was some decent black dirt.
And growing in that black dirt, for every year that I can recall, were petunias.
How do I know this? Well, it was the kind of thing that kids do with petunia flowers. They had a very light fragrance and it was something to do. What? You question this?!? Fair enough, look in the manual for kids, there are instructions for enjoying flowers. It's in the book, page 54.
I am not entirely certain why I remember those flowers so vividly. Nor
am I certain why it is so easy to recall how fragile they seemed - all
the while showing they were quite resilient, flourishing in a small bit
of soil in cinder blocks that surely wicked the moisture out and
magnified the heat of the sun.
I remember being asked to water them more than once. And I didn't mind
doing that, really. Being a kid, I suspect I might have given the
adults a little feedback that I didn't want to do it. But, that was
likely more out of principle than anything. If you are a kid, you have
to do that - it's also in the book - look it up.
Now, we have petunias in various pots on the farm AGAIN this year. We haven't
planted them every year, and I am not sure why. They are one of the first
annuals to bloom - throwing out colorful flowers that are as big or
bigger than the rest of the plant. If you take a few moments to
'deadhead' them, they really get going.
Oh yes, I remember learning about dead-heading at the grandparents too.
I bet they did not mind having the grandkids deadhead their flowers for
them. We knew it was something that needed doing if you wanted more blooms, so we just sort of
did it if we were hanging around outside. After all, the grownups were
having their conversations and we needed to amuse ourselves. And,
really, most kids actually don't mind being helpful, especially when
there is waiting around to be done - but they have to act like they
don't care or they don't like it. That, too, is in the book.
So, we have some petunias this year. And I am finding comfort in their
presence. Tomorrow
morning, I'll go deadhead some of the plants. Then, I am going to pick
the biggest bluish/purple flower of the batch and I'm going to hold it
up to my nose.
And inhale.
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